Getting Your Ex Back To You After A Breakup-Is It Impossible?
Both parties are equally hurt after a breakup. After all, you have emotionally involved with your ex for some time. So, it is not surprising that you may not have accepted it and even acting lost for a few days or weeks. You may be thinking on getting back with your ex. You may be resisting the urges to plead her to give you another chance. The good news is, it is still possible to win her back but first you need to some serious thinking.
You should be asking yourself these questions: a) Is it something that you did that caused her to be unhappy or something she wants you to do but you never do? b) Whatever it is, can you do anything about it?
If you can change the circumstances, be prepared to make the necessary changes even if it may hurt you in the short run. Before you even attempt to persuade her back, show her in your action that you are willing to change. Only after that, you should make apologies and ensure her that you are sincere in changing yourself. In some instances, she may still have feelings for you and both of you may get back together again. In most cases, you need to pour in massive efforts to make things work.
On the other hand, if the cause of breakup is really beyond your control, just accept that sometimes bad things happen to good people. Then, move on with your life. Keep the goodwill with your ex girlfriend and make it known to her that if you can do anything to make things better, you certainly will.
Accept whatever outcome and have a full happy life. Do not pretend to be someone else even if you are desperate of getting back with your ex. Do not compromise you true self. The relationship only works if your ex accepts you as you are.
You should be asking yourself these questions: a) Is it something that you did that caused her to be unhappy or something she wants you to do but you never do? b) Whatever it is, can you do anything about it?
If you can change the circumstances, be prepared to make the necessary changes even if it may hurt you in the short run. Before you even attempt to persuade her back, show her in your action that you are willing to change. Only after that, you should make apologies and ensure her that you are sincere in changing yourself. In some instances, she may still have feelings for you and both of you may get back together again. In most cases, you need to pour in massive efforts to make things work.
On the other hand, if the cause of breakup is really beyond your control, just accept that sometimes bad things happen to good people. Then, move on with your life. Keep the goodwill with your ex girlfriend and make it known to her that if you can do anything to make things better, you certainly will.
Accept whatever outcome and have a full happy life. Do not pretend to be someone else even if you are desperate of getting back with your ex. Do not compromise you true self. The relationship only works if your ex accepts you as you are.
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