Sunday, March 1, 2009

Tips For Finding True Love

By Jacob Gatsby

Love is all about purity and to have that purity in a relationship is hard to find and that in turn means that it is hard to find true love. Once you find true love it is a challenge to keep the true love from dissipating.

The main challenge in life is finding a person or a partner who can reciprocate your true feelings about love and also will give himself completely into you. If that is happening you can assume that it is not true love.

The definition of true love is not hard to put down. Simply said it is the feelings of oneness and completeness with the other person. It also means that you completely trust that person with all your heart and there is nothing which you hide from the other person.

With almost everyone today living a materialistic life there are a few things that you should be aware of if you are in love. Initially it is ok to be in blind love as you need to test the waters but gradually you should start evaluating the other person. You need to make sure that you are the not the only one in the relationship who is being unconditional and the gestures are not being reciprocated.

Love is all about someone able to hear your inner feelings and thoughts. If in a relationship you are not able to do that and in fact you feel restricted and constricted then it will mean that either you are not true to the relationship or your partner. In such situations make sure that you sit and have a sincere talk with your partner.

Equality in true love is important. That in turn means that you need to have a partner who respects you the way you are. If that is not happening and you are losing your individuality in a relation ship then it is better to get out rather than keep on trying the love in a wrong relationship.

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