How To Win Your Girlfriend Back - That Scary "First Date"
If you are trying to win back your ex girlfriend, you are going to need to start wooing her again. This often means going out on a date. But if you go traditional and do the typical dinner and movie date, there's a good chance things aren't going to turn out like you'd hoped. Here's why...
It's so important to make this first date different. Don't worry - that doesn't mean it needs to be super romantic in the traditional sense. It means thinking of things you can do that will make her heart race. Things that are exciting and exhilirating!
Why? Because when you go through an emotionally charged experience together, it automatically builds a bond.
Don't believe me? Do you remember the last flight you took - or the last bus ride, train trip or ferry ride? Now, what can you tell me about the person who was sitting on your right? Or the one on your left? My guess is... not much.
Now, let's say you were on the USAirways jetliner that had to make an emergency landing in the Hudson River not long ago.
As the pilot announces to brace for impact, you're thinking, "This is it... we're going to crash!"
Suddenly you hear sobbing and notice the little old lady sitting next to you. She looks a little like your Grandma - and she's even more scared than you are.
You reach over and take her hand in yours. You hear yourself saying, "It's alright. We're going to make it through this."
Now, do you think you'd forget about that little old lady? How her hand felt? The look in her eyes? And will she ever forget you? Not on your life!
Okay, that might sound extreme, but here's my point... your goal is to find a way to make your date more emotionally charged than usual. Like I said, create excitement and exhiliration. Dinner and the movies isn't exciting... it's just plain boring!
Even better, have several different "mini-dates" over an afternoon or evening. One classic example would be a short roller coaster ride.
So don't just do 'dinner and a movie' with your ex because...well...it's BORING! And it doesn't create a bonding...or in our case a RE-bonding experience.
This tip is powerful. If you really want to win your girlfriend back, use it! Emotionally charged experiences create a very real bond. It's a great start in getting back together again.
It's so important to make this first date different. Don't worry - that doesn't mean it needs to be super romantic in the traditional sense. It means thinking of things you can do that will make her heart race. Things that are exciting and exhilirating!
Why? Because when you go through an emotionally charged experience together, it automatically builds a bond.
Don't believe me? Do you remember the last flight you took - or the last bus ride, train trip or ferry ride? Now, what can you tell me about the person who was sitting on your right? Or the one on your left? My guess is... not much.
Now, let's say you were on the USAirways jetliner that had to make an emergency landing in the Hudson River not long ago.
As the pilot announces to brace for impact, you're thinking, "This is it... we're going to crash!"
Suddenly you hear sobbing and notice the little old lady sitting next to you. She looks a little like your Grandma - and she's even more scared than you are.
You reach over and take her hand in yours. You hear yourself saying, "It's alright. We're going to make it through this."
Now, do you think you'd forget about that little old lady? How her hand felt? The look in her eyes? And will she ever forget you? Not on your life!
Okay, that might sound extreme, but here's my point... your goal is to find a way to make your date more emotionally charged than usual. Like I said, create excitement and exhiliration. Dinner and the movies isn't exciting... it's just plain boring!
Even better, have several different "mini-dates" over an afternoon or evening. One classic example would be a short roller coaster ride.
So don't just do 'dinner and a movie' with your ex because...well...it's BORING! And it doesn't create a bonding...or in our case a RE-bonding experience.
This tip is powerful. If you really want to win your girlfriend back, use it! Emotionally charged experiences create a very real bond. It's a great start in getting back together again.
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