How to know if your foreign fiance is a scammer?
[I:0:J] If you are seeking a foreign bride, girlfriend or friend online, then there is a strong possibility that you have come in contact with a scammer or two. These are the girls that make you think they are real, yet in reality they are not. It is the money they are looking for and not love.
For those of you that have been following my blog, I posted an article of the typical scammer. I talked a little bit about what to look for when talking to them and finally I spoke about a scammer's objective and goals. If you missed this informative article, you can still read it on my blog.
What I am going to talk about now will show you how to ensure the lady you are talking too is not a scammer. There are ways to ensure your fiance, girlfriend or friend is not scamming you. There are little things that will take the worry out of meeting a foreign woman.
Is the girl that you are talking to real? Unfortunately if you are trying to start a relationship with someone in another country, then this is going to be part of the dating experience. Take what I am saying seriously and ensure you really know the girl.
When you start to look for someone abroad, you will come across a lot of stories about scammers. As you can imagine all these stories are real and none of them have a happy ending. So make sure you use my suggestions in this article or you will find yourself out of a lot of money, identity stolen, killed or physically hurt.
The first thing you want to do is use a recommended and reputable secure website to do your searches. Do a Google search for Elena's Models or Kiev Connections. I have personally worked with both owners and they are dedicated to ensuring a scam free, legitimate website. Both websites have women that are looking for long lasting relationships with men just like you.
If you do not want to pay for the service charge for a reputable website, then you have chosen to go at it alone. Now hopefully you have met this woman through a "friend of a friend" or family acquaintance, but if not then it is very important to ask for her mobile number. No matter the financial status of your lady, she will have a mobile phone. Everyone in Europe, Russia and former states of Russia have a phone. All the women I talked to in the Ukraine had a mobile number and wanted me to call them. If the woman told me she did not have a number, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.
Every woman in Russia and former Soviet Republics love gifts. They actually expect you to send flowers or roses for certain holidays. It would be normal for you to ask for their mailing address. Now you might want to wait a few weeks or even a month to ask for the mailing address. Some girls are shy and do not want to give it out until they know you a little bit through email correspondence. So be patient, but if after a month you are still not getting an address from the girl you are talking to, then there is something wrong.
Now if you have an address for the girl you are talking to, the best way to know if she is real is to have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving the flowers. All flower agencies that do business in foreign countries will offer this service. The extra charge is usually $5.00 to $10.00 USD. I have also seen flower agencies that will take a video of her receiving your flowers for about $20.00 USD. I know of a few guys that were really disappointed in what they saw in these pictures. Some girls did not match their photos at all. It can be a big disappointment, so better to know up front.
Lastly if you have doubts about your girl, then send an investigator out to take a look for you. You can find these investigators online. Some are expensive, but they will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your fiance, girlfriend or friend for you. They will let you know 100 percent if she is real or not.
If you are going to visit your fiance and have doubts, I recommend hiring a body guard to accompany you around town. I know a number of business men that use these body guards. Fees are negotiable and will give you a feeling of safety. Personally if I had this many doubts about my safety, I would choose to end the relationship. I was very relaxed and confident in whom I was meeting the first time I met my fiance.
It all comes down to going with your gut feeling. I know it can be hard to question the person in which you are trying to build a relationship. In the end you will be happier and much more confident in the relationship if you remove all doubts up front.
For those of you that have been following my blog, I posted an article of the typical scammer. I talked a little bit about what to look for when talking to them and finally I spoke about a scammer's objective and goals. If you missed this informative article, you can still read it on my blog.
What I am going to talk about now will show you how to ensure the lady you are talking too is not a scammer. There are ways to ensure your fiance, girlfriend or friend is not scamming you. There are little things that will take the worry out of meeting a foreign woman.
Is the girl that you are talking to real? Unfortunately if you are trying to start a relationship with someone in another country, then this is going to be part of the dating experience. Take what I am saying seriously and ensure you really know the girl.
When you start to look for someone abroad, you will come across a lot of stories about scammers. As you can imagine all these stories are real and none of them have a happy ending. So make sure you use my suggestions in this article or you will find yourself out of a lot of money, identity stolen, killed or physically hurt.
The first thing you want to do is use a recommended and reputable secure website to do your searches. Do a Google search for Elena's Models or Kiev Connections. I have personally worked with both owners and they are dedicated to ensuring a scam free, legitimate website. Both websites have women that are looking for long lasting relationships with men just like you.
If you do not want to pay for the service charge for a reputable website, then you have chosen to go at it alone. Now hopefully you have met this woman through a "friend of a friend" or family acquaintance, but if not then it is very important to ask for her mobile number. No matter the financial status of your lady, she will have a mobile phone. Everyone in Europe, Russia and former states of Russia have a phone. All the women I talked to in the Ukraine had a mobile number and wanted me to call them. If the woman told me she did not have a number, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.
Every woman in Russia and former Soviet Republics love gifts. They actually expect you to send flowers or roses for certain holidays. It would be normal for you to ask for their mailing address. Now you might want to wait a few weeks or even a month to ask for the mailing address. Some girls are shy and do not want to give it out until they know you a little bit through email correspondence. So be patient, but if after a month you are still not getting an address from the girl you are talking to, then there is something wrong.
Now if you have an address for the girl you are talking to, the best way to know if she is real is to have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving the flowers. All flower agencies that do business in foreign countries will offer this service. The extra charge is usually $5.00 to $10.00 USD. I have also seen flower agencies that will take a video of her receiving your flowers for about $20.00 USD. I know of a few guys that were really disappointed in what they saw in these pictures. Some girls did not match their photos at all. It can be a big disappointment, so better to know up front.
Lastly if you have doubts about your girl, then send an investigator out to take a look for you. You can find these investigators online. Some are expensive, but they will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your fiance, girlfriend or friend for you. They will let you know 100 percent if she is real or not.
If you are going to visit your fiance and have doubts, I recommend hiring a body guard to accompany you around town. I know a number of business men that use these body guards. Fees are negotiable and will give you a feeling of safety. Personally if I had this many doubts about my safety, I would choose to end the relationship. I was very relaxed and confident in whom I was meeting the first time I met my fiance.
It all comes down to going with your gut feeling. I know it can be hard to question the person in which you are trying to build a relationship. In the end you will be happier and much more confident in the relationship if you remove all doubts up front.
About the Author:
Art Saborio is a K1 Fiance Visa Specialist. His very practical and easy step by step method to K1 Visa Success is now available on his site. Also don't miss out on his blog, with infomation on the "critical ins and outs" of finding your Foreign Fiance
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